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Winner of the 2019 and 2018 International Book Awards Finalist for Best New Non-Fiction, Self-Help: Relationships, and Health: Women’s Health, and 2019 Living Now Book Awards Bronze Medalist for Relationships/Marriage
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Patty Wain Smith
Award-winning author Patty Wain Smith created and managed the first family violence prevention program at her church, and has worked as a hotline counselor for Parents Anonymous and Citizens Against Spouse Abuse. Smith studied psychology and counseling at the University of South Carolina and Webster University, and is a member of the Psi Chi International Honor Society. She's an experienced child development specialist and educational consultant as well as a lifetime advocate for children.
The author is a member of the Family Justice Center Speakers Bureau. She's appeared on Carolina and Company Live television and WRNN radio. Smith is a longtime South Carolina resident who writes, researches, studies, and reads with her loving dog, Boo, curled up at her feet. In her spare time, she plays piano and guitar, and teaches music. She's a proud member of the South Carolina Writers Association and the Authors Guild.
2019 and 2018 International Book Awards Finalist
Best New Non-Fiction
Health: Women’s Health
2019 Living Now Book Awards Bronze Medalist for Relationships/Marriage
Our society seems to be awakening to the plight that many have endured abuse. Those who have suffered silently are emerging from the shadows. “A Letter to a Friend” stands to be a helpful resource and guide to accompany individuals and families searching for light – those going through abuse and struggling with what their next step will be. There is a sweet comfort given when someone who is experiencing pain and suffering can hear from someone who has been there, who can truly say, #metoo.
I will be sharing this book as a resource for those in recovery from abuse and trauma.
Thank you Patty for being a voice crying out in the wilderness, preparing a path for healing and hope!
Pastor Brad BellahShepherd of the Sea Lutheran Church
A Letter to a Friend: The Story of Abuse in America – Patty Wain Smith captures all aspects of the journey from victim to victory and healing. In reading I felt like she was personally talking to me and taking me through my own journey. She does a beautiful job of incorporating the scriptures into every step of the healing process. Most importantly she touches on an often overlooked aspect of domestic violence and the effect it has on the children involved. Having been in the field of social work for over 35 years this is a book I would highly recommend to anyone in the field. Once you pick it up you will not want to put it down.
Mark BryantPost Adoption Support Specialist
Simply amazing! I feel very strongly this book can aid and empower victims, ultimately helping them to transition from victims to survivors.
Leah Leuthauser, MALicensed Professional Counselor
I strongly recommend A Letter to a Friend to everyone. As I perused each passage, I found it to be moving and insightful with a powerful message not only for the victim of abuse—but a message that transcends to anyone who cares about the circumstances of those who are caught up in this terrible web of abuse.
Dr. James Pearson, ACSW, LPCEducator, Professional Counselor, and Mental Health Center Director
This is what Patty Wain Smith has done with her “A Letter to a Friend.” She has masterfully woven a tragic story line into the fabric of a redemptive perspective where the pain is not wasted, but in a spiritual, mysterious, and creative way, is redeemed by the love and grace of God.
She warmly and gently invites the reader into her thoughts as she tells the story in such a way, before long, we all step through the looking glass and enter a world that may not be our own, but if we pause for just a moment, we come to realize it is very familiar to many for whom we deeply care. We might not “know” it, but as the author reminds us, “they are there.”
There is a plethora of books and other fine resources that do an adequate job in giving information about the spiritual epidemic of abuse of all kinds. “A Letter to a Friend” not only highlights the problem of abuse but goes on to give the reader hope of a lasting solution. This contribution to the discussion of abuse needs to be added to the tool box of every clinician, every pastor and denominational leader, every friend who knows someone who is trapped in an abusive relationship, and most of all, this book needs to be in the hands of the one who is gasping for some hope. For them, hope is on the way in the form of “A Letter to a Friend.”
Dr. Denny BatesLife Coach, Motivational Speaker, Trainer, Author, and Member of The John Maxwell Team
A dark story told with deep insight. Gripping. Beautifully written. Told like it is. First rate work!
David ZinmanAuthor of The Day Huey Long Was Shot, prize-winning AP Journalist and Newsday Reporter
A Letter to a Friend: The Story of Abuse in America is a tiny book with a giant message. Written in a moving and insightful manner, the book imparts a powerful message not only for the victim of abuse but also for anyone who wants to better understand domestic abuse. In a non-judgmental way, the author offers her readers both information and hope. The domestic violence statistics in our country are staggering. Nearly every one of us knows someone who could benefit from this book.