A sensitive and thought provoking must-read. A Letter to a Friend felt like an intimate conversation with someone I love very much. I was moved to tears, I felt like I knew this person. I wish everyone would read this because no matter what we think we know about victims and their abusers, we don’t. And because we may want to say those words to someone, but something is holding us back. These words are thoughtful without being judgmental. I would definitely recommend it!